I love lists. I love to read lists. Give me a list of the top ten reasons to do whatever and I am as engaged as a dog staring at something shiny.
I also like to create lists…shopping lists, to-do lists, Christmas lists and so on.
Creating a list ranks high on my list of activities. See the graph below…..
Items ranked in percentage of likeability
Since having multiple sclerosis for a good portion of my life, I thought it would be fitting to compile a list of things I miss most since being formally introduced to this disease.
So, I present to you……
Things I miss….
Running I miss running most of all. Running in a freshly fallen snow. I cried while watching my son as he ran on the Cross-Country team last fall. It was beautiful, and I wanting to stride along beside him.
Walking across the yard to the neighbors. Me walking on grass is a sight to behold.
Holding hands while walking. Hard to hold hands when you have crutches, canes, rollators & wheelchairs.
Standing to pee. Need I explain?
Using a knife & fork without looking like a caveman. Hard to grasp.
Climbing stairs without lifting each leg.
Buttoning a button-down shirt. Fumble fingers make playing dress-up difficult.
Doing two things at once. Gone
Laying still. Without a tremor or spasm.
Unfastening my pants before I begin going. No explanation required.
Things I miss cont…
Being on top of the food chain. I’ve slipped on this list because I am unable to outrun a predator.
Opening a bag/box without the use of a sharp instrument.
Confidence in walking with sharp instrument from drawer to bag/box.
Bending my knees without thinking. I move like an old G.I. Joe doll.
Getting up from a seat without the “Six Second System Check” time delay. My mojo is as hard to start as a Dodge Rambler.
Enjoying thick, plush carpeting, instead of dreading it.
The time in my life when I thought it was cute my foot & leg could “bounce” seemingly forever by itself. Great party trick.
More Things I miss…
Having room in my trunk for tools instead of mobility aids.
The days when “doing a shot” meant something completely different.
The days when I stumbled because I did “too many shots!”
When I only thought of MS as the abbreviation for Mississippi.
Being too busy to create these stupid lists!
Would you like to add something to the list of things we miss?
Please go ahead and share your comments.
I’m sure I forgot something—I have MS, you know!
September 10th, 2010 at 5:55 pm
this is awesome man
September 6th, 2010 at 2:14 pm
I understand your list. My husband has M.S. and is having a hard time feeling like a man. Things he was able to do before…has been taken away. God only gives you what you can handle. God has never promised that nothing bad would happen,but has promised to be there for you when they do.
September 5th, 2010 at 9:50 am
Donna,
Your heartfelt comment hit home.
We can all relate. I suppose at least we have our memories, right?
Many thanks for your input. Much appreciated!
My Odd Sock
September 4th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
I miss my nephew, Scott, who prior to MS was an active young man.
September 3rd, 2010 at 11:35 pm
I miss not having post it notes all over the house with chicken scratch writing (cause MS has taken my writing skills) reminding me of EVERYTHING.
September 3rd, 2010 at 2:31 pm
Taking a quick shower, without dropping the new bar of soap several times. Dam, that water makes the soap slippery. The more I think of it, just doing anything quick!
One thing I’ve learned to do is not unbutton the button-down shirts, just unbutton the top one and pull it over your head. They’re only for show anyway.
September 3rd, 2010 at 6:05 am
There are so many things which are laughable for persons without MS, if they were not so sad for those who have edured the trials and tribulations which MS can bring to one’s life.
Anything that helps me smile and laugh is a welcome bonus!
September 2nd, 2010 at 12:39 pm
I am a compulsive list maker. I make lists to make lists. My favorite is color-coordinating 5 x 8 index cards and Post- a- Notes. My Doctors are at the point now they take my lists from me at each appointment, check each item off, and write down answers to the question. Others may find this silly, but I never forget anything, and my lists are organized. It makes no sense to make a list, if you can’t find it.I think this came about because prior to my MS cognitive issues getting worse, my Mother would tell me I organize to organize. I can’t help it, and have had to “step up my game” to stay on top of things. Oh, and the thing I miss most, Driving. I miss not being able to go where I want, when I want, and having to ask someone to pick me up an occasional food craving. I could go on and on, but gotta go make a grocery list.
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September 1st, 2010 at 4:21 pm
Thoughtful points.
September 1st, 2010 at 9:36 am